Staying Sober on New Year’s Eve

Sober New Year's Eve
Dominic Nicosia

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Dominic Nicosia

People in recovery can often feel like they have their noses pressed against the glass on New Year’s Eve. The holidays are supposed to be about new beginnings, fresh starts, and promises to be the best versions of ourselves in the coming year.

However, holidays come with a culture of drinking and using that can make people who have battled substance abuse anxious. It can make some people feel on edge and unable to enjoy themselves. Ultimately, it can freeze them out of having fun with their loved ones.

It might be weird to watch friends and family making plans, filling their glasses, and not worrying about the consequences. People in recovery might feel alienated or a lack of control, which can lead to a cycle of relapse.

If you want a safe and sober New Year’s Eve, check out Recovery Unplugged’s tips for staying sober on NYE.

Change the Narrative: Partying Sober on New Year’s Eve

New Year’s Eve shouldn’t be about drinking. Seek out sober gatherings that are more about celebrating and less about getting sick from alcohol. You don’t need drama or to forget the very memories you’re trying to create.

Try to avoid bars or other environments where booze is freely flowing. Start contacting friends and family early and let them know your concerns. See if they have anything planned that you’d like to join, and if not, maybe throw your own sober party.

The Best Policy: Be Honest with Yourself

If you absolutely have to go to New Year’s Eve parties where you know there’s going to be alcohol, be honest. Sit yourself down and consider your level of risk tolerance.

The reality is there are some people in recovery who are perfectly fine being around booze. Others might want to put as much distance as possible between themselves and the bottle. If you’re part of a fellowship, talk to your sponsor and the people you trust to hear their opinions.

If you decide you can handle it, practice saying “no thanks” or “I’m good.” Carry a non-alcoholic beverage with you and have an escape plan.

Be honest and recognize if the environment suddenly becomes overwhelming. The biggest thing is to make sure you avoid major triggers that can lead to relapse.

Use Your Recovery Toolkit

The recovery process gives us the tools we need to stay sober in high-pressure situations. This can mean different things to different people.

For some people this may mean practicing avoidance techniques learned in treatment. For others, it can mean going to more meetings or therapy sessions to get guidance and feedback. Some people prefer to reach out to the alumni community at their treatment center through social media.

Whatever your preferred practice may be, the goal is to use the knowledge gained in recovery to stay strong.

Give Yourself A Break

When making New Year’s Eve Plans, giving yourself a break means accepting there are some places you’d rather not go. A big part of this is not worrying about what others think or feel about it.

Fear of missing out (FOMO) can make you feel like you need to put yourself at unnecessary risk. The important people in your life will understand what you’ve been through and won’t pressure you to go anywhere.

Your reasons for not wanting to put yourself at vulnerability for relapse are real and valid. Don’t ever feel like you need to make the choice between your recovery and “letting your friends down.”

For those who are new to recovery, it can become all too easy to dwell on past mistakes. It’s easy to fixate on the negative things you did over the past year.

Putting ourselves in this headspace can quickly lead to self-blame and guilt that we simply don’t need in our lives. As much as we consider New Year’s a fresh start, it can be hard to find power in new beginnings.

Instead of thinking about the bad things you’ve done in the past, think about how you can be present. Making peace with the past is important to being productive and your best self in the future.

Set Realistic Goals for Sober New Year’s Eve and Beyond

One of the most helpful ways to stay sober during New Year’s Eve and beyond is focusing on the possibilities of the future. This means setting realistic short-term goals each day or week while also keeping an eye on the big picture.

We should not, however, crush ourselves under the weight of unrealistic expectations. Stick to everyday goals that help move forward in life but keep the “long game” in perspective.

Setting goals helps us envision a better future, while also gently reminding us of what we have to lose.

Social Triggers: Too Busy Vs. Not Busy Enough

Many of us tend to measure where we are in life by how we ring in the New Year. For people who are trying to stay sober on New Year’s Eve, there are two types extremely of social triggers. Either you’re overwhelmingly busy, or lonely and isolated.

It’s okay to want to watch the ball drop with loved ones. Try and surround yourself with a supportive community and take care of your mental health.

Make sure you don’t get discouraged if plans don’t go exactly your way. It doesn’t mean you’re any less loved or valued by the important people in your life.

If you experience a setback in your attempt to stay sober on New Year’s Eve, don’t panic. Call a loved one, tell them what happened, and get yourself back into addiction treatment.

Relapse is unfortunately common in recovery, but it doesn’t have to be the end of the world or your life.

Recovery Unplugged wishes everyone a happy, safe, and sober New Year.

Dominic Nicosia

Dominic Nicosia

Dominic Nicosia, a seasoned content writer, brings a wealth of knowledge and expertise to the realm of healthcare writing, particularly in the addiction care field. Holding a Bachelor's Degree in Communications and Professional Writing from the University of the Arts Philadelphia (2009), Dominic has carved a niche for himself with over seven years of specialized writing experience in addiction care.

As the Senior Content Writer at Recovery Unplugged, Dominic is entrusted with the pivotal role of curating and overseeing the online blog, ensuring its alignment with the highest standards of accuracy, relevance, and trustworthiness. His responsibilities extend beyond the blog, encompassing all written communications within the Marketing domain. From articles and thought leadership pieces to web content, Dominic's penmanship is evident in every written facet of Recovery Unplugged.

Dominic's credibility is further enhanced by his contributions to esteemed publications like Austin Fit Magazine, where he delves into critical topics such as drug use, addiction, recovery, and mental health. His writings not only reflect his profound understanding of the subject matter but also resonate with readers, offering insights and guidance. Outside the professional sphere, Dominic's passion for music is evident. He has been writing and playing music for years, showcasing his versatility and depth as a writer and artist.

Dominic Nicosia stands as a beacon of expertise and credibility in the healthcare writing community. With a deep understanding of his subject matter and a commitment to accuracy, he consistently delivers content that is both informative and reliable, meeting the highest standards of quality and trustworthiness in the industry.


  • Proven track record in managing and enhancing online blogs, articles, and thought leadership pieces.
  • Adept at blending his passion for music with his writing, offering a unique perspective on topics.


  • Bachelor's Degree in Communications and Professional Writing from the University of the Arts Philadelphia (2009).
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